Strip clubs are interesting places – for a whole lot of reasons! One of the more interesting is that the women are there, are desirable and act sexy. Not only that but often they wear very sexy clothing, are sometimes semi-nude and in some places completely nude. What’s interesting about that? Well the fact that while it’s all on display in some cases and the women are there to extract a sexual response from their customers it is not OK to touch them. This article explains why you can’t touch strippers.

First and foremost, you can’t touch strippers because while they may be there to titillate you and are often very good at getting men excited they are dancers and not prostitutes. Now you might be saying, ‘I didn’t say they were!’, but this seems to be the dividing line between what an exotic dancer does and what a lady of the night does. No matter how provocative the dancers are, don’t touch and you’ll be fine.

Here are some other unwritten rules of strip clubs you should be aware of (drawn from the dancers themselves).

Don’t Ask to Have Sex With the Dancers

Believe it or not some men don’t understand that the women are dancers and only dancers. Some men insist on offering money for sex – sometimes large amounts. The fact is that exotic dancers are not in the sex industry and you acting as if she is not cool and is likely to get you thrown out of the club if you persist.

Don’t Be Creepy

A tough one for some people but use your own judgment. Some dancers say that clients claim they look like their daughter. Others go on in graphic detail about what they’d like to do to the dancer. While one man’s creepy is another man’s normal, if you wouldn’t say it on a date with someone then don’t say it to the dancer.

Consider Your Personal Grooming

Clean yourself up before you go to a club and, based on some dancers’ experience, remember to wear deodorant. Just like a date, the girls are paid to be there and be sexy but respect them the way you would any other woman and be well groomed.

Don’t Come in Your Pants During a Lap Dance

If dancers just dancing is provocative then the lap dance is a level above that. Remember, though, same rule applies: hands off. Some dancers say the worst thing that can happen is when a guy gets so excited that he comes and doesn’t say anything meaning they get a wet surprise at some point. Try to control yourself or at least speak up if your excitement got the better of you.